By Ray Delgado
I once heard a pastor say that he hates doing funerals. Not because of the sorrow and sadness and everything that comes with the experience that death is sure to bring. Although I’m sure that has to have a great impact on the mind and spirit of any caring pastor that involves himself in this type of duty.
Along with weddings, funerals are part of a pastors duties along with hospital visits, mission trips etc. You name it, a pastor does it and still has to find time to study to bring the Word of God to his flock. So in-light of this please pray for your pastor.
No, the reason this pastor said this is because he knows the fallen state of man-kind better than anyone else. He knows the sinfulness of men and women and what death brings to the unregenerate soul of a person that dies in unrepentant sin. For this reason funerals become a heavy burden to bear.
No one can judge the heart of a person except for God. God seen the wickedness of mens hearts in Genesis 6:5 and judged accordingly to His will. The prophet Samuel was sure that Eliab was to be Gods anointed because of his stature and appearance in 1 Samuel 16:6-7, but God corrected him on that saying, ” for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart “. And thus David was anointed instead.
So far as that no one can judge the heart of a man, a man’s heart can be looked at. A man’s heart is a sign post to his direction in life. As so brilliantly stated in Proverbs 27:19 ” As in water face reflects face, So a man’s heart reveals the man “. What is stirring in a mans heart will be reveal in his actions and character.
If you have been to any amount, even just a hand full of funerals, you would be inclined to think that everyone that dies has gone to heaven no matter who or what that person was. I once upon a time was inclined to think that way too, I mean unless that person was like Hitler or someone of that nature, until my eye’s were born to the truth.
Quite Sobering
Matthew 7:13-14 have to be at the top of the list as two of the most sobering passages in the Bible.
Verse 13 almost gives an ominous sounding command because it is a precursor to a very dreadful warning and final result!
“Enter through the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it”.
Thought provoking, eye opening, sobering and down right earth shattering for some to say the least.
And verse 14 is just as heart breaking.
“Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it”.
Now if them two passages alone don’t kick you in the teeth then not much else will. In Luke 13:24 the Lord Jesus Christ says these haunting words, “Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to”.
Have you ever known someone who just can’t seem to get it right and is constantly telling you, “I’m trying” or “I know, I’m trying” and then just cave in to the slightest temptation that comes their way? I mean I know we all have our falls as Christians, but the one’s in this passage that “will try and not be able to” are not Christians (but think they are) for the obvious fact that they weren’t able to enter. So when Jesus is telling people to “make every effort” He is saying every thought, every inclination of the heart, every action, every word, every ounce of our fiber should be in making sure without a doubt that we have surrendered all to Him and that we know for certain that we will be part of the “few that find it”
Verse 14 of Matthew 7 tells us “difficult is the way” yet so many think that life can be lived out in thought and deed any old way that is pleasing to them with no regard and no reverence to the Lord and still be able to enter in through the narrow gate that leads to life. Although their mouths profess allegiance, their actions prove otherwise. What a dreadful day that will be to all those who’s mind is set on that way of thinking.
Many people think they are in good standing with the Lord, but in all reality they are not.
All you have to do is keep reading in Luke 13 verses 25,26, & 27 these are some very damning passages to the one’s thinking they are right in their standing with the Lord. I mean these people swore up and down that they were Christians (or I might even go so far as to say not Christians, but still think they are secure in their standing with the Lord) they “ate and drank in His presence” and “He taught in their streets” they believed they were close with Jesus, but yet, Jesus says something that nobody, I tell you, nobody, ever wants to hear come from the mouth of Jesus and it be directed at them, He says, “I don’t know you or where you come from. Away from me, all you evil doers!”
Remember, these people thought they were “Christians”!
These are not the last words you want to hear from the Lord!
But so many who are passing on to the next life every day are hearing these words, this is truly sad and frightening!
These words won’t be a shock to those who openly denied Jesus as their Lord and Savior, like the Atheist, but to those who thought their ticket into Heaven was bought and paid for, for some reason or another because they went to church on Sundays or got baptized when they were a baby or because simply they were “good people” Oh my, what a painful and horrible revelation this will be for them!
To be accurate and there be no misunderstanding, when Jesus says, “Make every effort” He is not saying work for your salvation like so many religions take this to mean i.e.. Catholics, Jehovah Witness, Mormons etc (which are all false religions). No kind of works can ever get us in through the narrow gate Ephesians 2:8-10 is quite clear on this truth, He is saying He is the gate or the door and you must do the things it takes to find Him, which is repentance and forsaking the life you once knew and letting Him, Jesus make the changes in your life that bring you to this narrow gate.
The Bible, in fact, Jesus Himself calls it being born-again and without this there is no entrance into Heaven John 3:3 makes this very clear!
Let’s say you are not a believer, someone who has not been supernaturally changed by the regenerating power of the Holy Spirit (even though you profess to be) and you died and the Lord let you into Heaven.
To this person Heaven would be absolute Hell if allowed to enter in
The unregenerate sinner has a spirit that is naturally inclined to the things of this world, therefore his or her mind is set on and can only think and act on the things of this world, although they might profess to be “right” or “not that bad” as we said before their actions prove where their hearts really are, thus they do not have their minds set on things above (Colossians 3:1-2)
1 Corinthians 2:14 “The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned.”
One who cannot stand to go to or be in a church here on earth will not enjoy Heaven because there will be aspects of what we do here on earth in the church that will also be done in Heaven, this is evidenced in Matthew 6:10
An unregenerate soul cannot worship God. One might go to church and sing the songs but inside their hearts, they would most assuredly want to be doing something else.
Mark 7:6-7 Jesus says, “Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written: “These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.
They worship me in vain; their teachings are but rules taught by men.”
I use to take this passage and apply it to just the Catholic Church, but seeing the state of Christianity today it applies to any and all who are professing to follow the Lord, but are really make believers and not true believers of Christ.
Worship of God starts with the personal one on one (you and God) belief in the heart and mind knowing who Jesus claims to be and that all His promises and commands are true and to be believed, therefore lived out and followed in every facet of life. Only by becoming born-again and regenerated by the Holy Spirit can this happen. John 3:3
The worship and adoration towards God that is going to happen in Heaven is going to be remarkable and mind-blowing to put it mildly!
For this reason an unregenerate soul will absolutely despise this aspect of Heaven!
Many people say that the Bible doesn’t say “drinking is a sin”, and in fact it isn’t. There are many instances of wine being drunk in the Bible, in fact Jesus even turned water into wine at the wedding in Cana in John chapter 2.
My question is this though: Why do so many that do drink (excessively) and like to “have a good time” say that drinking is not a sin and like to point out these types of passages, but yet ignore all the passages that say “Drunkenness” is in fact a sin and will absolutely forbid the drunkard from entering into Heaven?
And this doesn’t mean just the drunkard that lives on the street reeling in the gutter homeless without a job. No, there are plenty of well paid drunkards. Drunkards with millions of dollars. Drunkards who have blue-collar jobs and show up to work everyday. Drunkards who just drink on the weekends, but chill-out during the week. Some drunkards rule nations!!!
If you are a Christian we are told in 1 Timothy chapter 3 about being “not given to drunkenness” in verse 3 and “not indulging in much wine” in verse 8. The heading in most Bibles say “Overseers and Deacons” before the chapter begins, but don’t get it twisted Christians, if you are a true follower of Christ you are in fact in some way an overseer or deacon to someone, therefore in no way should you be getting drunk! The Bible is riddled with passages that talk about drunkenness and being sober.
On the other hand, a person with an unregenerate mind, who loves to drink indulges greatly in this damnable sin of drunkenness. There minds are consumed by the next drinking party. The next reason to celebrate or simply the next drink that awaits them after work. I have heard some say, “I don’t go to church because all they want is your money!” they won’t give their money to a pastor to do the work of God, but they will in fact give it to a bar owner or waitress all night long.
I have seen many lives in my own family utterly wasted away in the bar. Their judgement and understanding is clouded by their excessive drinking.
But, many will continue to get drunk, but yet insist that it is not sinful and suffer the unimaginable consequences that drunkenness will bring them in the end.
Drinking is in fact an idol, and many simply cannot or will not stop getting drunk. As with any sin, this resides in the heart. People love to get drunk and try to justify it by any means.
For some, drinking is the most important thing in their lives, they love the drink even more than they love their own children!
For this reason the person that loves to get drunk will simply hate Heaven because this sinful desire and practice will not be allowed.
A person who is not born-again of the Holy Spirit and regenerate in body, mind and soul, and has not become a “new creation” 2 Corinthians 5:17 or is not a “new man” Ephesians 4:17-24 will simply hate, despise, loath and reject Heaven as his or her dwelling place for eternity even if Jesus did allow them in because it is going to be a place filled with people that have the “mind of Christ” which believers have at the moment they are truly born-again 1Corinthians 2:16, in fact some unbelievers can’t and won’t be around Christians now because just by being around them their own sin and guilt is revealed through their conscience.
And it’s for these reasons and many more that a person who is not born-again and regenerated by the Holy Spirit and living his or her life for the absolute glory of God and has not surrendered their life completely to the will of God to be Holy and blameless in the eye’s of God through Jesus Christ and being lead by the Holy Spirit everyday ie. carrying your cross Luke 14:27, well for that person……….
HEAVEN WOULD BE HELL!!!!
Now I know why that pastor hates doing funerals. I’ve seen people I knew who were very close to me pass on to the other side into eternity and know that they had never given their life to the Lord.
How can a pastor reassure a person of something like the destination of an eternal soul that in most times he himself is unsure of? Oh what a burden that must be!
I say this with all my heart loved one’s!!!!
“Make every effort to enter through the narrow door……..”
LUKE 13:24